Meet Dr. Soila Sindiyo
Dr Soila Sindiyo
HCPC registered Counselling Psychologist
I am an HCPC registered Doctor in Counselling Psychology and hold chartered status with the British Psychological Society. I am an accredited Positive Parenting Practitioner (Triple P) and currently training to be an Autism assessor and diagnostician.
I have several years of working within the NHS service with adults, children, young people and families. I have been working in private practice for almost 17 years – mainly supporting parents who are struggling with their children’s experiences and behaviour. I am also the founding editor of The Divorce Magazine.
In addition to my Doctorate, I hold a BSc (Hons) from The Open University and an MSc in Child Development from University College London (UCL).
My Approach
Tailored Guidance
I understand that no two families are identical. My approach commences with delving into your world – understanding you, your children, and the intricate dynamics that shape your family. This personalized comprehension empowers me to offer guidance that directly addresses your challenges, crafting strategies that are both effective and pragmatically feasible.
Evidence Based Strategies-
My recommendations are firmly rooted in research and established methodologies. By incorporating the latest insights from child development and psychotherapeutic practices, I provide you with strategies that are not only impactful but also thoughtfully aligned with the well-being of both parents and children.
Non-Judgmental Space
Parenthood brings a mosaic of emotions, including highs and lows. Within my nurturing space, there’s no room for judgment. Here, you’re invited to candidly share concerns, explore emotions, and seek guidance without hesitation. I’m here to listen, comprehend, and steadfastly support you throughout your journey.
Collaborative Partnership
I view our journey as a collaborative endeavor between us. My role is to offer expert guidance while respecting your invaluable insights into your family. Through transparent communication and shared efforts, we navigate challenges and commemorate milestones together.
Holistic Well-Being
My approach extends beyond singular challenges to encompass the comprehensive well-being of your entire family. I place a strong emphasis on cultivating healthy relationships, fostering emotional intelligence, and nurturing an environment where everyone thrives.
Your Journey, Your Success
With Parenting Lives, you’re not just a client – you’re a partner in shaping positive change. My approach is designed to empower you with the tools and insights needed to make lasting, positive changes in your family’s life.
Impact of the Work
At Parenting Lives, I am dedicated to creating positive transformations within families. With compassionate guidance, evidence-based strategies, and unwavering support, I have empowered families to experience tangible improvements.
- Real Stories of Change: Every family I work with has a unique story, and these stories drive my passion. From better communication to stronger relationships, my clients see positive shifts in their lives.
- Creating Stronger Bonds: I focus on emotional intelligence and nurturing healthy connections, helping families build unbreakable bonds filled with understanding and empathy.
- Confidence and Empowerment: I’ve seen parents gain confidence in their abilities through evidence-based strategies and personalized support.
- Fostering Well-Being: My comprehensive approach leads to increased overall well-being for families, nurturing emotional health and resilience.
- Join the Journey of Transformation: I invite you to be part of this journey toward growth, connection, and empowerment. Choose Parenting Lives for a brighter family future. Together, let’s create lasting impacts and write a transformative chapter in your family’s story.
Why Choose Me
- Specialized Expertise: As an accredited Positive Parenting Practitioner (Triple P) and trained Family Mediator, I bring a unique blend of skills to support you. My background as a certified school and trauma specialist further enhances my ability to address various parenting challenges.
- Tailored Guidance: Your family’s needs are as distinct as your journey. My approach revolves around providing personalized guidance that takes into account your family’s dynamics, challenges, and goals. You can expect strategies that are tailor-made for your situation
- Evidence-Based Strategies: My recommendations are rooted in research and proven methodologies. I offer more than just advice; I provide strategies based on solid evidence tailored to your family’s well-being.
- Compassionate Approach: Parenthood is a journey filled with emotions. My nurturing and non-judgmental approach is designed to support you as you explore these feelings, seek understanding, and gain insights into your parenting experience.
- Collaborative Partnership: I view you as a partner, not just a client. We work together through open communication and collaborative efforts to overcome challenges, celebrate successes, and create a harmonious family environment.
- Proven Impact: Parenting Lives has a history of facilitating positive transformations within families. Countless parents have discovered newfound confidence, improved relationships, and a deeper understanding of their children through my support.
- Empowering Your Journey: By choosing Parenting Lives, you’re investing in an empowered parenting journey. My aim is to equip you with the tools, knowledge, and support you need to navigate parenthood with confidence and success.
A Mother
“Soila helped me immensely when I was having trouble in my marriage. In our first session, she immediately put me at ease. One thing she said that i’ll never forget is “which ever way it goes you’ll be fine.” She helped me draw out my own feelings about the situation and what I wanted to do. She also helped me recognise how my children were dealing with what was happening. I came out of our session so much more confident that everything was going to be ok.
Mum of three
When I met Soila she immediately made me feel comfortable and at ease. I found I could ask anything without feeling embarrassed as my case in particular is a very hard one. Soila gave me all the advice and confidence I needed , throughout every session. She was kind and open hearted and also, never judgemental. I found I could be totally honest and felt ok with telling her every part of my long journey, which now she is also a part of. Thank you Soila for just being you . It’s been a honour to meet and work with you and I would recommend you highly anytime . God bless and also thank you for your added help with regards to my case, and Michelle 😁xx
Parents of two
Our six year old could be aggressive and rude which had caused problems in childcare. Our three year old was defiant and keen on writing on walls. As parents we enjoyed using praise, were quite comfortable with ignoring minor naughtiness but lacked effective strategies to manage challenging behaviour. Soila worked with us over three sessions. She observed our parenting practice and suggested ways to build on good strategies we already had and put in place a few new ones. The interventions were very effective, Soila helped us brush up our communication skills, set realistic goals and enforce appropriate consequences.
A Parent, London
When I read one of Soila’s articles for the first time, I realised her work was different: a competent and knowledgeable approach, yet simple and direct… Soila combines a sound knowledge of such delicate matters together with appropriate support techniques for parents and children in these circumstances. Soila demonstrates with her every day work she is one of the few professionals in the UK who does acknowledge and understands children’s issues associated with divorce… I would certainly recommend divorced parents who need guidance for their children’s sake to get acquainted with Soila’s work, read her books, visit her blog, attend her course or talk to her.